In certain subjects, celebrities often remain vague, dodge, or politely change the topic. However, Alexandra Lamy chose to take a different approach. As part of the promotion for “Pour le Plaisir,” the comedy she starred in and released on May 6th, the actress participated in a podcast called “InPower” with Reem Kherici, the film’s director, and Camille Aumont Carnel. The conversation delved into open-hearted discussions about romantic relationships, where the three women clearly didn’t stick to conventional answers.
Alexandra Lamy made it clear that she is single, is content with it, and is not looking for anyone. “I am very happy being single,” she boldly stated. “I am not looking for anyone at all because I am perfectly fine on my own.” There were no implications, no false modesty, just a 54-year-old woman who knows exactly where she stands in life.
What makes her confession even more striking is how she embraces this situation long-term. Alexandra Lamy doesn’t speak of a transitional phase or a momentary break. She discusses it as a deliberate and thoughtful life choice. “I have been in relationships for a long time. I am very happy being alone,” she admitted, adding humorously, “You have to be very careful because you get very used to being single.”
The conversation then shifts to a broader perspective beyond personal testimony. Camille Aumont Carnel, also present as a guest, highlighted something that all three women immediately agreed on: “We have economic independence,” she emphasized. “We are the first generation that, in mass, is financially independent. For the first time, we choose partners for who they are and their ability to be capable men.”
Alexandra Lamy resonated with this viewpoint, honestly stating, “We are not more demanding. Before, people were in relationships. Excuse me, but there were people who were extremely unhappy.” The underlying message is clear: being single by choice is better than settling for a relationship that doesn’t fit. It’s a simple message, but one that isn’t often articulated so clearly by a public figure.
During the promotion of the film “Pour le Plaisir,” in which she plays the role of Fanny, Alexandra Lamy participated in numerous interviews. Asked the key question of how to make a couple last, her response was succinct and humorous: “Don’t ask me, at least not me.” Short, effective, and humorous enough to diffuse what could have been an awkward moment.
What Alexandra Lamy shares about her current life is quite uncommon in the industry: a woman who doesn’t need validation from someone else to be happy. At 54 years old, and a mother of a 28-year-old daughter, she shines, clearly not waiting for anyone’s approval to do so.
